Funerals

I have collected a selection of poems and readings you may like to use during a ceremony, I hope you will find something suitable. I intend to add more regularly.

Adieu and au revoir

As you love me, let there be

No mourning when I go,-

No tearful eyes, no hopeless sighs,

No woe, nor even sadness.

Indeed I would not have you sad,

For I myself shall be full of glad,

With the high triumphant gladness

Of a soul made free.

Of Gods sweet liberty

 

No windows darkened for my own

Will be flung wide as ne’er before,

To catch the radiant in pour

Of love that shall in full atone

For all the ills that I have done.

And the good things left undone

No voices hushed: my own, full flushed

With an immortal hope, will rise

In ecstasies of new born bliss

And joyful melodies.

 

Rather, or your sweet courtesy,

Rejoice with me

At my soul’s losing from captivity.

 

Wish me ‘Bon Voyage’ as you do a friend

Whose joyous visit finds it’s happy end

And bid me both ‘Adieu’ and ‘Au revoir’

Since, though I come no more

I shall be waiting there to greet you

At His Door.

 

And, as the feet of the bearers tread

The ways I trod,

Think not of me as dead, but rather –

Happy, thrice happy, she whose course is sped!

She has gone home.

 

John Oxenham (1852 – 1941)

The plan of the Master Weaver

My life is but a weaving between the Lord and me;

I may not choose the colours,

He knows what they should be

for He can view the pattern upon the upper side,

while I can see it only on this, the under side….

 

Sometimes He weaveth sorrow, which seemeth strange to me,

but I will trust His judgement, and work on faithfully,

‘tis He who fills the shuttle, and He knows what is best,

so I shall weave in earnest, leaving to Him the rest….

 

Not till the loom is silent and the shuttles cease to fly

shall God unroll the canvas and explain the reason why –

the dark threads are as needed in the Weaver’s skilful hand

as the threads of gold and silver in the pattern He has planned.

 

Benjamin Malachi Franklin (1882 – 1965)

The ship

I am standing upon that foreshore.

A ship at my side spreads her white sails to the morning breeze and starts for the blue ocean.

She is an object of beauty and strength and I stand and watch her until at length she hangs down like a speck of white cloud just where the sea and sky come down and mingle at the horizon.

Then someone at my side says: ‘There! She’s gone!

‘Gone where?’

 

‘Gone from my sight, that’s all.’

She is just as large in mast and spar and hull as ever she was when she left my side;

just as able to bear her load of living freight to her place of destination.

Her diminished size is in me, not in her.

And just at that moment when someone at my side says,

‘There! She’s gone!’ there are other eyes watching her coming, and other voices ready to take up the glad shout

‘Here she comes!’

And that is dying.

Charles Henry Brent (1862 – 1929)

Word

There is a word, of grief the sounding token.

There is a word bejewelled with bright tears.

The saddest word fond lips have ever spoken,

A little word that breaks the chain of years.

It’s utterance must ever bring emotion,

The memories it crystals cannot die.

‘Tis known in every land, on every ocean,

It is

Goodbye

Anon

At rest

Think of me as one at rest,

For me you should not weep

I have no pain no troubled thoughts

For I am just asleep

The living, thinking me that was,

Is now forever still

And life goes on without me now,

As time forever will.

 

If your heart is heavy now

Because I’ve gone away

Dwell not long upon it friend

For none of us can stay

Those of you who liked me,

I sincerely thank you all

And those of you who loved me,

I thank you most of all.

 

And in my fleeting lifespan,

As time went rushing by

I found some time to hesitate,

To laugh, to love, to cry

Matters it now if time began

If time will ever cease?

I was here, I used it all,

And now I am at peace.

Anon

Andrea Jackson The Holistic Celebrant

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