Funerals

I have collected a selection of poems and readings you may like to use during a ceremony, I hope you will find something suitable. I intend to add more regularly.

A Mother’s lament for her Son’s death

Fate gave the word, the arrow sped,

And pierc’d my darling’s heart;

And with him all the joys are fled

Life can to me impart

 

By cruel hands the sapling drops,

In dust dishonour’d laid;

So fell the pride of all my hopes,

My age’s future shade.

The mother-linnet in the brake

Bewails her ravish’d young;

So I, for my lost darling’s sake,

Lament the live-day long.

 

Death, oft I’ve feared thy fatal blow.

Now, fond, I bare my breast;

O, do thou kindly lay me low

With him I love, at rest!

 

Robert Burns (1759 – 1796)

The unfinished

We cannot judge a biography by it’s length,

Nor by the number of pages in it.

We must Judge it by the richness of it’s contents

Sometimes those unfinished are among the most poignant.

 

We cannot judge a song by it’s duration

Nor by the number of it’s notes

We must judge it by the way it touches and lifts our souls

Sometimes those unfinished are among the most beautiful.

 

And when something has enriched your life

And when it’s melody lingers on in your heart

Is it unfinished?  Or is it endless?

 

Anon

We are glad

We are glad that (name) lived

We are glad that we saw her face

and felt the touch of her hand.

We cherish the memory of her first smile,

her first tooth, her happy disposition.

We cherish the memory of the joy and beauty

she brought to us.

 

We grieve that she never reached her potential

We take joy in that she brought so much love

and meaning into our lives.

We will remember her for the rest of our lives

We sadly bid her farewell.

 

Anon

Her role down here is done

Her little soul has touched us all,

She didn’t need to stay:

Her spirit touched each one of us

Before it sailed away

 

We all know souls arrive on earth

With special roles to fill,

And hers has fully played it’s part,

Her memory guides us still.

 

She had a very special soul

She stayed but just a while,

So if, or when, you’re feeling sad

Recall her with a smile.

 

For then you’ll know inside your heart

The reason why she’s gone,

And never feel too empty that

Her role down here is done.

Her spirit touched each one of us,

No other ever could.

Forever will we cherish her

The way we know we should.

 

Anon

From XXV11. In Memoriam

Doomed to know not Winter, only Spring, a being

Trod the flowery April blithely for a while,

Took his fill of music, joy of thought and seeing,

Came and stayed and went, nor ever ceased to smile.

 

Came and stayed and went, and now when all is finished,

You alone have crossed the melancholy stream,

Yours the pang, but his, O his, the undiminished

Undecaying gladness, undeparted dream.

 

Robert Louis Stevenson (1850 – 1894)

Andrea Jackson The Holistic Celebrant

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