Funerals

I have collected a selection of poems and readings you may like to use during a ceremony, I hope you will find something suitable. I intend to add more regularly.

You can shed tears

You can shed tears that she is gone

or you can smile because she has lived.

 

You can close your eyes and pray that she’ll come back

or you can open your eyes and see all she’s left.

 

Your heart can be empty because you can’t see her

or you can be full of the love you shared.

 

You can turn your back on tomorrow and live yesterday

or you can be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday.

 

You can remember her and only that she’s gone

or you can cherish her memory and let it live on.

 

You can cry and close your mind, be empty and turn your back,

or you can do what she’d want: smile: open your eyes, love and go on.

 

David Harkins

This heritage

They are not dead,

Who leave us this great heritage

Of remembering joy.

 

They still live in our hearts,

In the happiness we knew,

In the dreams we shared.

 

They still breathe,

In the lingering fragrance, windblown,

From their favourite flowers.

 

They still smile in the moonlight’s silver,

And laugh in the sunlight’s sparking gold.

 

They still speak in the echoes of the words

We’ve heard them say again and again.

 

They still move,

In the rhythm of waving grasses,

In the dance of the tossing branches.

 

They are not dead;

Their memory is warm in our hearts,

Comfort in our sorrow.

 

They are not apart from us,

But a part of us,

 

For love is eternal,

And those we love shall be with us

Throughout all eternity.

 

Anon

Thy will be done

You left quietly without a fuss

You always had a smile to share

A laugh, a joke

A time to care

 

A wonderful nature

Warm and true

These are the memories

I have of you

 

A beautiful life

Came to an end

You died as you lived

Everyone’s friend

 

You gave me year’s of happiness

Then sorrow came with tears

You left me lovely memories

I will treasure through the years

 

Dorothy Frances Gurney (1858 – 1932)

I fall asleep

I fall asleep in the full and certain hope

That my slumber shall not be broken;

And that though I be all-forgetting,

Yet shall I not be forgotten,

But continue that life in the thoughts and

Deeds

Of those I loved…

 

Samuel Butler (1835 – 1902)

The fallen limb

A limb has fallen

from the family tree.

I keep hearing a voice that says,

“Grieve not for me.

Remember the best times,

The laughter, the song.

The good life I lived

While I was strong.

Continue my heritage,

I’m counting on you.

Keep smiling and surely

The sun will shine through.

My mind is at ease,

My soul is at rest.

Remembering all,

How I truly was blessed.

Continue traditions,

No matter how small.

Go on with your life,

Don’t worry about falls

I miss you all dearly,

So keep up your chin.

Until the day comes

We’re together again.’

 

Anon

Andrea Jackson The Holistic Celebrant

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