Funerals

I have collected a selection of poems and readings you may like to use during a ceremony, I hope you will find something suitable. I intend to add more regularly.

On a friend

An honest woman here lies at rest

As e’er God with his image blest;

The friend of man, the friend of truth,

The friend of age, and guide of youth:

Few hearts like this, with virtue warm’d

Few heads with knowledge so inform’d:

If there’s another world, she lives in bliss;

If there is none, she made the best of this.

 

Robert Burns  (1759 – 1796)

If I had a voice

If I had a voice today, I’d say

Dear ones, please don’t cry,

Still love me but don’t grieve for me,

It’s easy if you try

 

Don’t think of all that I won’t see

Just think of what I’ve seen

Think not of places I won’t go

But remember where I’ve been

 

I’ve lived, I’ve loved, I’ve laughed, I’ve cried

I’ve worked hard, that’s for sure

I’ve done my best, I’m satisfied

I couldn’t ask for more

 

I know not what becomes of me

Nor what’s beyond today

If I had a choice I’d use my voice

But alas I’ve gone away

 

You have memories of me to enjoy

Smile, laugh, be tough,

You have loved me and enriched my life

I was happy, that’s enough!

 

Anon

When I am gone

When I come to the end of my journey

And I travel my last weary mile.

Just forget if you can, that I ever frowned

And remember only the smile

 

Forget unkind words I have spoken;

Remember some good I have done.

Forget that I ever had heartache

And remember I’ve had loads of fun.

 

Forget that I’ve stumbled and blundered

And sometimes fell by the way.

Remember I have fought some hard battles

And won, ere the close of the day.

 

Then forget to grieve for my going,

I would not have you sad for a day,

But in summer just gather some flowers

And remember the place where I lay.

 

And come in the shade of evening

When the sun paints the sky in the west

Stand for a few moments beside me

And remember only my best

 

Mrs. Lyman Hancock

Success

To laugh often and love much;

To win the respect of intelligent persons

And the affection of children;

To earn the approbation of honest critics

And to endure the betrayal of false friends;

To appreciate beauty;

To find the best in others;

To give of one’s self;

To leave the world a bit better,

Whether by a healthy child,

A garden patch

Or a redeemed social condition;

To have played and laughed with enthusiasm

And sung with exultation;

To know even one life has breathed easier

Because you have lived –

This is to have succeeded.

 

Ralph Waldo Emerson  (1803 – 1882)

The parting glass

Oh all the time that e’er I spent,

I spent it in good company;

And any harm that e’er I’ve done,

I trust it was to none but me;

May those I’ve loved through all the years

Have memories now they’ll e’er recall.

So fill to me the parting glass,

 

Goodnight and joy be with you all.

Of all the comrades that e’er I had

Are sorry for my going away;

And all the loved ones that e’er I had

Would wish me one more day to stay,

But since it falls unto my lot

That I should leave and you should not

I’ll gently rise and I’ll softly call

Goodnight and joy be with you all.

Of all good times that e’er we shared,

I leave to you fond memory,

And for all the friendship that e’er we had

I ask you to remember me;

And when you sit and stories tell,

I’ll be with you and help recall.

So fill to me the parting glass,

God bless and joy be with you all.

 

Traditional Irish Song

Andrea Jackson The Holistic Celebrant

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