Funerals

I have collected a selection of poems and readings you may like to use during a ceremony, I hope you will find something suitable. I intend to add more regularly.

A silent tear

Just close your eyes and you will see

All the memories that you have of me

Just sit and relax and you will find

I’m really still there inside your mind

 

Don’t cry for me now I’m gone

For I am in the land of song

There is no pain, there is no fear

So dry away that silent tear

 

Don’t think of me in the dark and cold

For here I am, no longer old

I’m in that place that’s filled with love

Known to you all, as “up above”

 

Anon

Weep not

So, weep not for me when I am gone,

For I have lived to see and feel

The sun rise brilliant yellow above the sea

And set in golden glory over distant fields.

 

And watched the angry sea lash with

Giant waves, the rocky cliffs,

And, in calmer mood, lap gently up

The sandy beach.

 

I have smelt the fragrant scent of rose and lilac,

Of honeysuckle and new mown grass,

The pungent smell of fresh sawn cedar wood and pine,

And the salty breeze, spume-blown and foam edged

North Sea breakers.

 

Then weep not for me,

No greater experience can be mine.

 

Anon

Remember me

Do not shed tears when I have gone

but smile instead because I have lived.

 

Do not shut your eyes and pray to God that I’ll come back

but open your eyes and see all that I have left behind.

 

I know your heart will be empty because you cannot see me

but still I want you to be full of the love we shared.

 

You can turn your back on tomorrow and live only for yesterday

or you can be happy for tomorrow because of what happened

between us yesterday.

 

You can remember me and grieve that I have gone

or you can cherish my memory and let it live on.

 

You can cry and lose yourself, become distraught

and turn your back on the world

or you can do what I want – smile, wipe away the tears,

learn to love again and go on.

 

David Harkins

Your grief

Your grief for what you’ve lost lifts a mirror

up to where you’re bravely working.

 

Expecting the worst, you look and instead,

here’s the joyful face you’ve been wanting to see.

 

Your hand opens and closes and opens and closes.

If it were always a fist or always stretched open,

you would be paralyzed.

 

Your deepest presence is in every small contracting

and expand the two as beautifully

balanced and coordinated as birdwings.

 

Jalaluddin Rumi (1207 – 1273)

May time soften your pain

In times of darkness, love sees…

In time of silence, love hears…

In times of doubt, love hopes…

In times of sorrow, love heals…

And in all times, love remembers.

May time soften the pain

Until all that remains

Is the warmth of the memories

And the love.

 

Katrina Wood

Andrea Jackson The Holistic Celebrant

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