Funerals

I have collected a selection of poems and readings you may like to use during a ceremony, I hope you will find something suitable. I intend to add more regularly.

Turn again to life

If I should die and leave you here awhile,

be not like others, sore undone, who keep

long vigils by silent dust.

 

For my sake, turn again to life and smile,

nerving they heart and trembling hand to do

something to comfort weaker hearts than thine.

Complete these dear unfinished tasks of mine.

And I perchance may therein comfort you.

 

Mary Lee Hall (1843 – 1927)

Don’t make me a hero when I’m gone

I went to a funeral today.

Someone who obviously knew the family well

Stood to ‘say a few words’.

 

Well, the lady in the coffin was hardly recognisable!

She’d been so unbelievably good at everything

It’s a wonder anyone liked her at all.

 

So don’t make me a hero when I’m gone.

 

There’ll be good things about me to miss

And some not so good, which you’ll be better off without

So keep things in balance.

 

Whatever you do, have a laugh.

I’ve loved tears of laughter rolling down my cheeks

Tummy aching with hilarity

Always made me feel better about things.

 

So have a good laugh

It’ll do you good –

And don’t make me a hero when I’m gone.

 

Anon

For Winter’s rain

For winter’s rains and ruins are over,

And all the season of snows and sins;

The days dividing lover and lover,

The light that loses, the night that wins;

And time remembered is grief forgotten,

And frosts are slain and flowers begotten,

And in green underwood and cover

Blossom by blossom the spring begins.

 

Algernon Charles Swinburne (1837 – 1909), from  Atlanta in Calyden (1865)

The instinct of hope

Is there another world for this frail dust

To warm with life and be itself again?

Something about me daily speaks there must,

And why should instinct nourish hopes in vain?

‘Tis nature’s prophesy that such will be,

And everything seems struggling to explain

The close sealed volume of its mystery.

Time wandering onward keeps its usual pace

As seeming anxious of eternity,

To meet that calm and find a resting place.

E’en the small violet feels a future power

And waits each year renewing blooms to bring,

And surely man is no inferior flower

To die unworthy of a second spring?

 

John Clare (1793 – 1864)

When at heart you should be sad

When at heart you should be sad,

Pondering the joys we had,

Listen and keep very still.

If the lowing from the hill

Or the tolling of a bell

Do not serve to break the spell,

Listen: you may be allowed

To hear my laughter from a cloud.

 

Sir Walter Raleigh, Explorer (1554 –1618)

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